"OH MY GOD!" She squealed, "I knew him when he was a kid, he was the typical boy next door go to church every Sunday, never do anything wrong kid!"
I laughed and said, "Well there's certainly nothing wrong with this!" (Come on gorgeous! Rawr!)
Its always strange to me the people we know that we don't know, would the people who knew me in high school sitting behind them in bible study really think I was going to be an erotic author? Probably not. Your boss and his wife who just had you over last Tuesday. . . Would you guess they're also members of the local swinger's club?
My husband is fond of telling the story of coming home from work one day and seeing this drop dead gorgeous woman on the arm of some Joe-Shmoe, and saying he's 100% positive that she was a very well paid "lady of the night." But some people are just not so obvious.
I once sat a party listening to my girl friends rambling on and on about how disgusting anal was. Finally I laughed in exasperation and said, "Have you ever tried it?"
They both gaped and said "No!" We talked about it for some time, and I have been told since that at least one of my "anal virgin/haters" now enjoys it very much.
The point is - life takes us all in crazy directions, some times we're not going to know who we're sitting beside. Be wary of casting judgement, and enjoy the "boy you could be a ______" game. :D