Rihanna's S&M has been on my list of songs for the blog for several weeks, but I always waver at the last minute and pull it.
Now its not because its dirty, and shows shots of sexy latex lingerie, spanking, dominance, and hot, hot stuff - lets face it, if you are here you probably are okay with that.
Its because of the satirical way its portrayed. In some ways sex is always funny. (I mean, come on if you could see some of your own expressions when that big O moment takes you! And yes video cameras have happened on my side and they almost always make me laugh!) But in other's its a very intimate act, and some of the best times I have experienced being bound up and gagged are not at all about funny. Was she making fun of it? Will it offend my readers?
I'm sure also that "Innocent Mom's Everywhere" just quick clicked the video off and went "what the hell are you thinking Lesa!" That's what I did the first time I saw this video.
In the end I've decided to post it just for the sake that sometimes we need to take sex lightly, we need to enjoy a different type of sex, just as most S&M participants will say they don't always want to be bound, gagged, and beaten, (or do the bounding, gagging, and beating!) sometimes their lovemaking will take a softer side.
I'd love to hear your thoughts on the video in comments below or via email! :)
And if you are in the mood for some darker binding, latex, and whipping head on over to the Box of Chocolates, specifically Latex and Chocolate. :) I'm sure you'll enjoy it.
Now its not because its dirty, and shows shots of sexy latex lingerie, spanking, dominance, and hot, hot stuff - lets face it, if you are here you probably are okay with that.
Its because of the satirical way its portrayed. In some ways sex is always funny. (I mean, come on if you could see some of your own expressions when that big O moment takes you! And yes video cameras have happened on my side and they almost always make me laugh!) But in other's its a very intimate act, and some of the best times I have experienced being bound up and gagged are not at all about funny. Was she making fun of it? Will it offend my readers?
I'm sure also that "Innocent Mom's Everywhere" just quick clicked the video off and went "what the hell are you thinking Lesa!" That's what I did the first time I saw this video.
In the end I've decided to post it just for the sake that sometimes we need to take sex lightly, we need to enjoy a different type of sex, just as most S&M participants will say they don't always want to be bound, gagged, and beaten, (or do the bounding, gagging, and beating!) sometimes their lovemaking will take a softer side.
I'd love to hear your thoughts on the video in comments below or via email! :)
And if you are in the mood for some darker binding, latex, and whipping head on over to the Box of Chocolates, specifically Latex and Chocolate. :) I'm sure you'll enjoy it.
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