Memorial Day is upon us, and I thought I'd give a big Thank You to all the troops out there spending it away from their loved ones.
Long distance relationships are hard, and like many of you out there I have first hand experience with it. I met my husband online - he lived three states away. Granted that is nothing like the distance our soldiers deal with, nor the fear that their wives, mothers, husbands, fathers, brothers, and sisters live with each day.
Many people cringe at the idea of "phone sex" or "cybering," but sometimes they are the best opportunity to have with your loved one. It can take the edge off of the miles apart, and grant stimulation to a part of you that is not dead just because your loved one is away, and in truth it can be incredibly sexy in its own accord.
Think about the scene in the movie "The Truth About Cats and Dogs." In it the hero (Brian) and heroine (Abby) fall in love on the radio and phone, but Brian doesn't know what Abby looks like and she lies and tells him she is model Noel. The sex scene in the movie takes place on the phone and is perhaps one of the sexiest scenes I have ever seen on the big screen. Why? Because it entices the mind, inspires fantasy, and intrigues the body.
Long distance relationships are hard, and like many of you out there I have first hand experience with it. I met my husband online - he lived three states away. Granted that is nothing like the distance our soldiers deal with, nor the fear that their wives, mothers, husbands, fathers, brothers, and sisters live with each day.
Many people cringe at the idea of "phone sex" or "cybering," but sometimes they are the best opportunity to have with your loved one. It can take the edge off of the miles apart, and grant stimulation to a part of you that is not dead just because your loved one is away, and in truth it can be incredibly sexy in its own accord.
Think about the scene in the movie "The Truth About Cats and Dogs." In it the hero (Brian) and heroine (Abby) fall in love on the radio and phone, but Brian doesn't know what Abby looks like and she lies and tells him she is model Noel. The sex scene in the movie takes place on the phone and is perhaps one of the sexiest scenes I have ever seen on the big screen. Why? Because it entices the mind, inspires fantasy, and intrigues the body.
I have often been accused of being able to orgasm simply by thinking about it. I believe that anyone in the right mindset experiences a level of pleasure that goes far beyond those that consider sex a "chore" or do it only for their partner's satisfaction.
How do you get to the right mindset? A million ways all leading with romance:
Ways to try to romance him/her...
~light candles
~slow dance
~listen to romantic music / "your" song
~read or write poetry
~if you're married read your vows / watch a video of your wedding
~recreate a romantic thing that reminds you of a past special occasion
~give a spontaneous gift
~read a sexy/erotic book together
~take a bath/shower together
~snuggle and watch a movie
~talk dirty to each other
~spank, blindfold, gag...(if they're willing)
~tickle
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